Going with the Flow: Celebrating Endings and Embracing the Messy Reality of Rebirth

The past year of my life feels like it’s been tossed through a cosmic washing machine—turbulent, cleansing, and ultimately transformative. I know I'm not alone in this. Many of us are facing moments where our carefully envisioned paths seem to dissolve before our eyes, leaving us in a whirlwind of uncertainty.

People I thought would always be in my life are now absent, while others unexpectedly remain, their presence a gentle yet powerful reminder that they were always meant to stay. At first, these shifts were deeply unsettling, confusing, even painful. Yet, within that chaos, clarity emerged: I remembered that these changes were exactly what I had asked for.

We often pray, wish, or manifest grand visions for our lives—success, love, fulfillment. Yet when the universe begins the necessary rearrangement to bring those dreams into reality, we panic. We cling tightly to people, jobs, and situations that no longer serve our highest good, terrified of the void left behind.

I personally prayed for profound success in my business. The universe responded decisively, clearing away everything that didn't align with my deepest desires. At first, I resisted, pleading internally, “Wait! Not that, not them!” But the universe, wise and unwavering, gently insisted, "Yes, this too."

We forget that transformation involves letting go. To move forward, we must leave behind what's comfortable yet outdated, allowing space for new growth. The truth is, rebirth is rarely neat or gentle. It’s messy, emotional, and sometimes painful. Yet, within that chaos lies immense beauty and potential.

So today, I want to remind you: what might feel like loss or upheaval is the universe actively answering your deepest prayers—even if it's uncomfortable, even if it's messy. Celebrate these endings, for they are doorways to profound beginnings. Trust the flow of life, lean into the chaos, and know with certainty that what's truly meant for you will never miss you.

I love you.